So Many Question Is Bothering Me

My sister brought over her daughter and has a check together with my LuiLui at my mother’s house on the same day. So sad to found out that her daughter is missing vagina.

I have tried to search online for that information and wish to know more about it. My sister is feeling sad now. Her husband will send their daughter to do a detail check up at specialist again. All of the family members are worry about her now. We have so many questions that wish to know but haven’t found the answer yet.

I have read few website written in Chinese and English that provided this health topic. One of it is http://www.netwellness.org/ency/article/001497.htm. However, I still have thousand of question that doesn’t clear about.

• Since she doesn’t have a vagina, then what is her actual sex? For us, she definitely look and act like a girl.
• Is it possible to have surgery to add a vagina or uterus?
• Does she have ovaries?
• Can she have sexual relations?

Busy Weekend

My mother’s house have a very busy weekend, because my sister brought her children to visit us on Sunday and will be staying for a week. My mother going to very busy on coming week. Who is the most happy person on yesterday? Of cause is my LuiLui who was always alone in her grandmother home. Now she have more friends to play with and I am sure she will fully enjoy the moment. Now is my time to say a little prayer, I hope LuiLui won’t over excited and play without nap. She will be very fussy at night if didn’t get enough nap.

How To Handle A Tantrum Kid?

I know I am definitely not a good mother for my children. Besides money, I can’t provide them the care and attention they need. This is what I always blame on myself. I am just don’t know how to be patient on handle LuiLui temper tantrum as I am a hot temper person too. I just not easy to cool down myself and listen to her.

I actually understand that she might hard to express herself with words on particulars moment, so she is expressing anger and frustration by her tantrum.. However, stupid mother just can’t stand for her keep whining, crying, screaming, kicking and hitting. I often asking myself what should I do to stop LuiLui doing this or how should I handle this when she doing it again. Very headache to facing this kind of situation. Being a mother really a hard task! Can I quit? Opps…Just kidding.