Archive for the ‘HusbandNWife’ Category
December 12, 2011
We are planning to bring the children to my sister home this weekend. John has not tells me what time he is available now. My sister keep ask me what time we will departure from home, so that she could estimate a time and ready dinner for us. Well, I have no chance to talk with him these few days too, so no chance to ask him about the time. I think I have to sms him regarding this already. Isn’t sound silly? Husband and wife also could “chat” using sms only…
November 19, 2011
Yesterday I requested my child to ask John if he free to date me today. Too bad, he does not have time to entertain me because have to rush for a project. He even let the children told me he won’t be free for the coming few weeks. Hai…seem like I have no chance to date with my lovely hubby in this school holiday already. 
November 6, 2011
John does not like me to cook at home. He would comment that I am making his home dirty whenever I want to cook at home. Hai..i really do not understand him something, I though most of the hubby would like wife to cook and don’t want always take outside meal. But seem like he is totally opposite. It meal I cooked taste so terrible or just simple because he doesn’t want to be so tire for cooking for him? I wish is the second reason..haii
October 14, 2011
John has stops to go fitness center since two weeks ago, because he is busy in working. Although he does not goes gym at night but he still back home very late. Recently, he is busy for a project that has to complete at December. He is working OT every day, and also weekend too. I feel like we having less time to talk now. Some of the day I could only meet him at the morning, the only 30 minutes that we could talk. Pity him..
September 27, 2011
Because of John, I force myself to start doing exercise too. However, I am such a lazy person who has no patient to continue the program. I tried Practice Yoga at home but stop after three weeks. And then found another fun activity to do so start to dance Zumba at home too. Too bad, that only for three weeks practice also.. Now I am doing nothing at home..haii….
September 22, 2011
John is working overtime these few days. He forgot to inform me that would back home late yesterday. I waited him back home and was so worry what happen to him. I only know that he was working Overtime after smsed him. Good that he understand my worry and promise me will let me know if he back home late. Ok.. This time he already informed me in the early morning he is working overtime tonight. So, I don’t have to wait for him tonight.
July 27, 2011
I wonder the Friday night dating for John and I still on or not. He looks so busy recently and I am worry he would forget our Friday dating too. I didn’t ask for dating every Friday but once a month is at least. I just want a date for entertainment. A day we go watch movie or go out for a simply dinner will do. I hope he would not forget our dating.
July 27, 2011
He does not back home early anymore. He – my hubby – John, very busy in doing exercise in fitness center these few days. Previously, he will back home around 7pm but now 8pm also haven’t reach home yet. He told me he is going to fitness center after work and probably would back after 8.30pm only..
That is meant I have to settle the children until there are sleep alone now! No more helper in the night. My man is trying to escape being a good father who changes them in sleeping wear.
June 1, 2011
Another 10 minutes to pass 6.30pm. Why John has not back home yet? I though he would be back at 6pm and spend another 30 minutes for shower. Then we could go out sharp at 6.30pm. But now I think we might able to go out after 7pm only. Hmm.. Don’t know this time manage to get a good seat at cinema or not. We are going to watch X-men today. Hope we manage to get the movie ticket later.
April 28, 2011
I asked hubby if he is free after work at tomorrow. I am thinking to date with him at night. We have no going out for dinner or movie couple for a month already. Previously I told him we must dating once or twice a month and take this day as our premier day. However due to problem kids arrangement, we forced to cancel the plan few times already. Hmm..This time I must get the plan work like normal.
January 30, 2011
John suppose to accompany me today because he promise to be my bodyguard, so that we could go shopping center to exchange currency for our vacation use. But I called him this morning, he does not free to accompany me at all. He said he is very busy for meeting today, would only be free on tomorrow. I am quite worry tomorrow exchange rate would become higher. Hai…but nothing I could do know since I do not want to bring big amount money alone to exchange. Dangerous!
January 25, 2011
John back home early yesterday. Although it was already 8.30pm when he home, however, this time is consider early if compare to last two months. John back home after 12am everyday in the last two months. I do not have time to chat with him nor meet him at all. Yesterday was the first day he back early and we have chance to meet and have a talk. Hai.. pity wife..
January 14, 2011
Will husband and wife relationship become worst if they do not have much chance to chit chat and meet? I believe the answer is yes. Maybe could not say it is worst, but definitely would become less close to each other. For me communication between the husband and wife is very important. If they do not have chance to talk and communicate then how do they maintain good relationship? However, the time spends for communicating not necessary must be many but as much as possible would be good.
January 5, 2011
15 minutes. From Monday until Saturday morning now, I only have 15 minutes to meet with John and chat with him. Could you believe that?? I could not believe too. We are not having quarrel or fighting. We are to busy with our own schedule only. I went out to work when he stills in dreamland; the time he comes home is my turn in dreamland. We have less chance to meet and surely no chance to chat like previously. Hai..
December 20, 2010
A must remember thing not to do after become stay at home mother is do not create trouble for husband. Especially when he reached home not long time enough; just took bath; or when he thinks to relax after work. I did one last two day and he sound very unhappy with the happening because it is troublesome him. Well, I know he is tire and I should not disturb him. But it is an accident; I am not purposely to create the trouble.
December 1, 2010
John and I have less conversation recently. I think we have not much time to chitchat. Oppss..Should saying that we have less time spend together and the time I mean is without the children. With the children around we totally have no private time at all. The children just love to play around us and disturb our chatting. Too tire to stop them form talking so better we are the one stop talking.
November 21, 2010
My mood does affect John. When I am feeling down or unhappy, he would sense something wrong and try his best to make me smile again sometimes. Or he would just leave me alone and give me more time to relax. This is the way he treat his wife when in bad mood. Haha
I am not sure this is the right way to treat me or not but I think really need to cool down when I am in bad mood.
November 16, 2010
What should I cook for John tonight? I wish to cook for him but he seems like prefer to take dinner at outside rather than at home. I know he likes my cooking; so he does not like the messy I done while cooking. Haha..
He scared of doing cleaning work than me. Although I would clean my the kitchen after cook but he still feel not clean enough after I done all. Haii.. what a silly man.
October 27, 2010
I love to hear my husband tell me he loves me be the only girl in his life. Although he repeated this for so many times but I just love to hear he says it! Haha
I think girls all like to hear sweet talk. And I am a lucky girl who has a man willing to sweet talk to me without forced him to say.
October 20, 2010
John’s temper has become a little bit hot since last week. The pill he is taking now has affected his mood and temper. This was what doctor told me before. I am waiting to see if he is having the same effect. Well, seem like he is. Anyway, I have to be more careful and make sure the children not disturbing him often. If not kids would suffer already. He is not meant to do that, I am trying to minimum the impact.
October 14, 2010
I am so sleepy and being so lazy now. I want to skip the class tonight and stay at home to rush the preparation. However, should I send the kids to attend the class and absent alone? But who is going to fetch them back if I am not attend the class? I wonder John would pick them up if I ask so. Hope he could help..
September 11, 2010
He looks like a rude man but he is very gentle and careful actually. He massages my head when heard me saying that I having headache. He asks me to make a glass of coke add salt when heard I am complaint heat. He will help me carry the entire heavy item and will also help me carry my girly handbag. He even helps me clean my body when we bath together! Haha..What a lovely man I have!
August 28, 2010
Nothing is better than have a man that truly loves. I appreciated to have John as my hubby. Although he not a handsome guy and even got people “hint” me he looks “ugly” with his pair of super small eyes. However, I treat this as nothing and willing to be with him, even he is poor too. I have no idea why I married to a man with no good looking and money. I could not find a reason but only love him.
August 19, 2010
One day, I am busying iron the children school uniform in their bedroom. My husband and children are watching TV at the living room. Later, I suddenly notice John is standing outside the door and looking at me quietly.
I am quite shocked and ask him, what’s going on? Why you looking at me like that. You know what he told me?
He said : ” I really could not understand why I would love a woman who does not know to do anything like you.”
August 10, 2010
John wanted me to wait him back home yesterday night. I tried to stay awake and wait for him in the bedroom after put the children to sleep. I do not switch off the light and trying hard to keep myself awake. Too bad, I failed. I know John is back but I could not make myself wake up to welcome him, I am too tired already and my eyes refuse to open. :p
June 27, 2010
John has no time to accompany the children and me for two months already. He told me at around April that his project is running out of time now and would be very busy. June is almost passing already, but seems like he has not complete the project yet. I thought he would only busy for two months but today he told me he would not be free for the next few months too. hai.. I think I do not have to plan for any vacation in next few months already. He could not even have time to chat with me for longer time, never to say bring us to a vacation.
June 17, 2010
When wife has no mood to entertain husband, how do you reject husband then? What I mean is when I am damn tire and want to sleep early or I am feeling unhappy and have no mood to “play” with husband. I do not know is wrong or right, but I would just tell him don’t come to me. I have no mood or I so tire have no energy to entertain him. :p
June 5, 2010
John is not a handsome guy. He also not a man who will sweet talk to you. But he will be there whenever I need him. When I feeling sad and do not want to talk, he will hug me without say a word. When I need to mumble, he will entertain me even he is feeling sleepy. I appreciate his care and I hope he would be the one comfort me in the future too. Until forever.
April 27, 2010
John going to ban me enters to study room at night already. Yes, he surely would if I continue to spend time online and do not take care of his lovely daughter. Usually man is less care about children but my man is very different. He taking care of the children most of the time and I am just doing what I like at home. I know I not suppose to do that but I am a very lazy wife. I wish I could change myself but too bad, I could not :p
April 26, 2010
8 marriage years might not a long period, but I feel like we are together for very long time already. Some times, we having some thought and same opinion. However, we having same view for most of the things. This might be the reason why we could be husband and wife. I wish we could be together forever. I love him as the way he is and he loves me, a inner me.
