He is the best…to me

I always thank you god has giving me a very nice husband. I could never decline that John is a very good husband. I know there are many women have very good husband as well, however I always believe mine is the best. (Just like other women thinks their husband is the best too)

• Sweep and mop floor every weekend.
• Change my daughter sleeping wear almost every day if he is around.
• Wash plate after dinner.
• Prepare to wash clothes every morning.
• Wash clothes and dry it at night. (Although, it just put in washing machine and drier)
• Argue with me less that 5 times in 10 years!

Above are some of the points make me love him more.

Love His Smell

Short apart did improve husband and wife relationship. I do not know about other husband and wife, however it is working great in John and me. I love to touch him and hug him tied everytime he is back from outstation. I love to smell him and kiss him. haha

I think I am crazy about his smell. I just love to be at his side and with him for every second.

Outstation Again

John will be outstation today. He told me suppose to go on yesterday but due to short of materials, so he has no choice to wait for the materials delivery. Therefore, today would be the time leaving already. Most of the materials will be arrive today.

I am ok with that since I am already use to it. John use to outstation for at least 2 weeks or a month since 3 years ago. I should not sound much because he is working hard for the family actually, not go for fun. right?

First Time Keep In Touch Online

John and me never keep contact through internet until last two days. John does not know much about Computer, never say the internet services. He only expert in surfing football website which was teach by his friends few months ago.

I though he would not reply my email because he seldom check his email account. For me, he registered the email address just for fun only. I am so surprise to see his reply yesterday night. He replied me and said he missing me so much! haha…so sweet.

Sweet Husband

John suppose to outstation again this week end, however he has to postpone because of my plan. Of course, I am very happy with his arrangement. Although we already been together for many years. Sometime, we might not have chance to chitchat more than 20 sentences in a day due to I am too busy to take care of my girl at home.

I usually will fall in sleep very fast at night. But I do feel his care and just love him being so nice and lovely to me. Thanks Darling!

No Time To Miss Him

John already went to outstation 4 days already. I am quite busy these few days, so it is still ok for me to live without him at this moment. haha

However, I think I will miss him badly next week. Most of my work would complete in next week and I would be free to miss him like crazy at that time already. I probably would call him everyday so that I could chat with him. Well of course if he free to entertainment me.

He Was Unhappy

Hardly believe that John was angry me yesterday night. I need his help to bring down something to me yesterday night, after he brought down I need him to take back the stroller and mumble a little about that only. Then he showed his unhappy face and straightly back home already.

I have no time to ask more at that moment because I am rushing to go other place. But I do not talk with him after back home too. I straightly go to sleep after back home.

Nice Man

John agreed to partially sponsor my sister for a vacation in this year-end. I was so surprise to hear that because he never say would sponsor me also! Of course, I have not ask for it yet, I understand that he is very kind to my family members and would help them as much as possible. I should not envy tough.

OK! I will not envy but I will start to think of other idea to see if I could get sponsor from him for my future vacation or not. I want to escape like my sister too!

Marriage Life Is like This huh?

I was sitting beside John in the living room just now. He is busy watching his favorite football show while I am reading my newspaper. We do chat on and off, however, it just could not make me sit for longer time after I finished the newspaper, because I do not like football show. Too boring to me.

I back to my study room and updating my blog now. Our life seems quite boring now. He has his program while I am accompany my computer more than him. marriage life is always like that huh?

Change, Wear, Take off!

I wonder does your husband request you to wear sexy sleepwear while half way having “quality time” with him?

I felt very funny yesterday when John requested me to wear my sexy sleepwear. Well, I thought the sexy sleepwear should wear before I turn him on. It should be something attracting him and hint him I need quality time. But according to my lovely husband, it is not only for starting. Well, maybe just me too lazy to wear it on for few minutes and then take it off again.

Closed The Door Please!

We have a very good laugh yesterday night. John looks at me when I just arrived home. He still thinking about the incident happen the night before this. He laughing to say that we should locked the door from now on and will never repeat the same mistake again.

Yes! lesson learn! surely will locked the door for quality time now.

Embarassement Night

We have a danger night last two days. John and me are having our quality time after put the children to sleep. We already close the door but no lock it as we thought the kids would not wake up in the middle of night. But  we were WRONG! Aki awake due to cough and the worst is she opened our bedroom door!

Lucky, quality time finished at the right time but still very embarrassed because we have no time to prepare ourself yet. I wonder what my kid think when they seem like in that kind of situation. :p

Boring At Home

He was outstation a week for his project. He did calls me last two days but told me he was busy for the project. He would be back by next month only. I feel very lonely because have to apart with him for another week again. I though he would be back home by latest this week end. But what to do? Job is much more important than his family.

I AM VERY BORING WITH JOHN AT HOME!

I Miss Him

I miss him! When he is not around.
I miss him! When he is outstation.
I miss him! When he is working.
I miss him! When I need someone to care.
I miss him! When I want to buy something.
I miss him! When I need money!

One Week Once Is Not Enough?

Note : 18GX

If you don’t mind please share your opinion with me.

Do you think one week once “quality time” is not enough? Is it enough for your man or for you?

I am just curious does most of the man request more like what I heard or they do not really mind how many times is it.

Don’t tell me they want to release “sperm” so can’t stand for one week one time. I don’t think those sperms want to swim out so urgently.

Would you feeling tire if doing often? I think I can’t stand for it. :p

I Could Not Control My Feeling

He says “No”
I feel sad

He says “Yes”
I feel happy

Is his word really so powerful? He could control my happy and sad?

Does I am look stupid? My mood is changing according to someone answer?
I do not know am I stupid or not. I only know I love him and he does effect my happy and sad.

Touching My Loved One

I love to touch John’s stomach. Don’t be curious why I love to touch it. Haha..Do you ever tough a big ball with very smooth surface? Sometimes it is warm and sometimes it is cool. He able to give back the pregnancy feeling. When I with 7 or 8 months pregnant, I love to touch my own stomach too. Of course, one of the reasons was because I am enjoying touching my baby who live in my stomach. Although, there is no baby in John’s stomach but I just have the same feeling of I am touching my loved one!

Glad He Finally Chat With Me About The Trip

I am very happy because John finally chat with me regarding our trip. I though he is not interested at all but he is. He already told his sisters regarding our trip. Although most of them comment that we should not bring Aki together because she does not know how to enjoy the trip yet. Well, I do not mind what they say, I will just do what I want to do.

More Quality Time With John Now

I have more quality time with John after I moved out Aki. Aki able to sleep sound through the night and I do not have to wake up every night just to comfort her.

I am enjoying the time sleep with John as we have more time to chat and do something we love to do. :p the decision to move Aki out of our bedroom is right!

He Happy I Am Happy

I am very happy these few days because John is back and we have a very good chat these few days. He is now taking part into my trip planning too. I though he is not interested to know our trip itinerary at all. However, these few days we chat a lot about the trip and I have show him the simple itinerary that prepared by my friend. He looks quite interested to know more about it. I am glad he likes it.

We Are In Cold War

I have not speaking to John for 2 days. Yes, we have a cold war last weekend. I did not understand what have I done and he get angry with. I have to admit that I have something hard to tell him as I do not know how to tell. I am just do not know how to start the topic.

John asked me what’s going on when I am rejected to have “quality time” with him. I just told him I have no mood. He felt a bit unhappy after that but still chat with me. However, once he asked me the same question again and I request him to wait for the answer from LuiLui. I know John is angry with my answer then. I think he truly wanted the answer from me but I still do not know how to tell him.

I could not understand why he get angry so easily? Isn’t that just a small matter? I am getting angry as well, as I felt that he angry because I do not “entertain” him.

Should I Force Him?

Should I force him to join my vacation plan? I know John does not want me to spend so much on the trip. For him, now is not the time to enjoy such expensive vacation yet. We still have loan not settle yet and we don’t even have money to start the renovation. spend over ten thousand just for a vacation seem too luxury for us, right?

I am trying not to force him, but I just could not deny the evil “friend” influence. The most important is that is my dream destination all the while. I been dreaming to visit there since very long time ago, now is the best chance to travel there since I have a very good travel guide there.

Precious Moment

I was busy in the study room to rush for office work after dinner. John is calling me in the living room, he has cut some orange for me. We have a chat while having my orange. After I finished the orange, John pass me a wet tissue to lap my hand.

I suddenly feel very sweet and warm. I told him, “I really cannot deny that you are a nice and sweet husband.”

I am very happy I am married to a right man. A man that not handsome but very nice and faithful to his woman.

Big Kid Is Sick

John has fall in sick since yesterday. He does not have appetite to eat and has no mood at all. I suddenly feel so pity on him as he seldom show me that kind of look. Yesterday I willing to serve him like a king. I know I am not a good wife as I am not everyday treat him so good as yesterday.

He looks better today morning. I already boil some herbal tea for him and make sure he drink the tea in the working hours too. I hope he will get well soon. I am feeling down to see my man sick.

I’ll Plan For A Vacation Soon

I am looking forward to have a second honeymoon with John since last month. I do not know why I feel so much to have a vacation with him. I only wish to have more time to spend together. I think we are having less time to spend together recently. Sometimes we do not even chat more than half an hour. Why? Because both of us are busy at home or because we have no topic to chat?

I hope we could have more topics to chat in the trip. I want to have the sweet feeling again… So I definitely will plan for the vacation no matter her agree or not.

Argument Could End With Happy Too

My friends always look surprise when I told them I never argue with John before. Well, It should not be a problem if you have a husband like mine. I am a terrible woman who has no patient and having hot temper. John is different type of person, he is very patient to handle matter and he has no hot temper, at least he could stand for my non-sense sometime.

After our few years marriage, i do pick up some nice temper from him. We could change the argument situation into fun ending sometimes. Although I not dare to say I could always control my temper but I do try.

An argument not necessary would end with unhappy or sad. Sometimes, it depends on how you response and what have you say. I am still learning on how to handle argument without hurt each other. Marriage Lesson will never end if you want to have a happiness future life with husband.

No Mood No Do

Will you refuse to intercourse with your husband if you have no mood to do so? I will not force myself to do with him if I have no mood. Of course, I will consider first if I am have mood or maybe am I still have energy for it.

I do not think I could enjoy the process if I am too tired or no mood. I do want to use the word “scarify” to complete the intercourse just to pleasure my man. What I really want is provides the best and I am really enjoy the moment. I believe that he could understand how I feel as well. I know he prefer me to enjoy the process rather than just him to enjoy it.

What Would You Do?

If you seeing your man holding a lady hand, they look very closely and shopping in the Mall. What would you do?

1. Walk away straightly, and pretend you didn’t see them and ask where he gone today.
2. Walk away straightly, and never talk about it.
3. Walk to them, see how is their response and walk away.
4. Walk to them and question him on the spot.

I do not know what could a woman do at that situation anymore. Please tell me if you have different action. I think there should be many follow up thing to do after this. I am curious about what would you do at that moment and how do you feel?

Quality Time = “DO” Time

I do talk about I have no me time and is hard to find quality time for John too. However, I do try my best to escape from child and only spend my time with John. I specially escape from Aki and have to be “thick” face to send Aki to my mother house, so that I could have one or two hours to rush back home and have some quality time for John.

I have no idea this is good or bad, but the time I specially rush back for John have become “DO” time. It looks like we need “DO” time rather than quality time. However, I starting to release that sexual life is part of marriage.

Note: Do not know what is “DO” time? Think about something that you only will do with your husband. Of course you still can “DO” with others man if you want to. For me, John will be the only one and I hope he will be the last one as well. :p

No Self Time Then Where To Find Quality Time?

Quality time is what couple need. I often heard people talk about this, I fully understand it. I think the only problem for parent is how to get more time to spend together. How to escape from children? Who is going to help you take care of them?

I always want to sit besides John and I hope I can hug him and kiss him always. I also hope to chitchat with him often; I want to tell him how I miss him and how I wish to be at his side forever. But … sometimes it just not in the romantic situation I want. How to be romantic when your children are running in the house, and I have to shout to them and stop them to turn the house upside down.

Quite funny, I do not even have self time. How to I have chance to have quality time with John?