I would like to say thank you to my lovely husband John. He is such a great husband that would always support me. He knows I like to travel and would always make my own decision where to go and when to go without inform him first. However, he never complaint nor say a thing about it. He would just trying his best to fulfill my plan. Such a great husband where to find now? I believe I would not found one if I never meet him.
John started to work Overtime since yesterday. He said he have to rush for his work before leave for holiday. He came back around 11pm yesterday night. I was in bad mood that time and do not go out to welcome him at all. I am feeling bad now because I am not a good wife. My mood affect my action deeply and I just do not know how to adjust my mood and treat him good after a tired work.
John and me take turn to take care of the children in these few days holiday. Chor 1 was my turn to take care two children and John went out with friends for tea around 10pm. He suppose accompany me on that day because that day was Valentine day too. But too bad he did not. He prefer to accompany his friends on this special day rather than with me. haii..
Today is Valentine day. I dated John to watch a Hong Kong Movie today. We went to the cinema at 6.15pm and the show started at 7.10am. We have a relax tea time before the movie start for about 25 minutes.
Then the movie ended at 9am. Guess what happen next?
Went to fetch the children – back to home – the children and me stay at home and John went out for tea with gang! @($&)(*%$#
I have a date with John this coming Sunday. I been waiting for the 2012 movie sicne last month and even date him in advance before the show is start. I take this chance as a PakTohing date. I would send the children to my parent place and get their help to take care of them for few hours. So that, I could escape with John for the movie.
I am looking forward for the day!
I love to suprise John. I Love to make him happy. I love to give him pleasure.
Last week, I bought a silk sleep wear in shopping center and planned to surprise him at weekend. I already keep the sleepwear secretly and thinking not to let him see it before I wear it in front of him.
Maybe I am a bit eat full nothing to do. But I just enjoy the moment he see me in that half transparent sleep wear. It just so fun to turn him on! 
Yesterday, a friend asks my current relationship level with my husband have reached which level. I am not sure what she talking about until she explains further.
Marriage after so many years did the relationship go further good or getting worst now. Do we still love each other as much as pak-tok-ing; or we are living under same root but with different world?
I told tell her, John and me still loving each other as previously. In addition, I also very happy John gave me the same answer when I asked him this question.
I though John would outstation today but he told me he would stay this morning. Well, I am still not sure when would he going to outstation for his project yet.This Saturday is public holiday, maybe that is the reason he does not want to go outstation? I am very happy he could stay for a little longer with us.
Let see if I could plan a relax holiday in this weekend with him or not. Maybe I should arrange for a day out with him, we have no chance to date for quite some time already.
The answer lies on recognizing the fact that you walk on parallel paths. So, in order to preserve your relationship, you must build a life style that will guarantee that your ways will never cross, that there will always be some distance between you. I feel, however, that it is necessary to stress that this is only one aspect of the chart. There is much more involved in your relationship and, perhaps, the complete lack of connection between the four and the nine will never become much of an issue. But if it does, remember that the distance between these numbers is the only thing that makes it possible for them to live in harmony. Try to overcome the distance and harmony no longer exists.
John might not a 100% good father, but he definitely is 99% good husband. I should have complaint about him at all. In fact, I could not find a reason to complain him as he already serves me the best! He is the one love me and pampers me the most in this world. Even my parent do not treat me as much love as he does. I should feel lucky to have him to accompany me for rest of my life.
John sms me and saying that he will be going to Genting Highland tonight. He have not out when I brought the children back home. Then I only know that he is waiting for his colleague who is just moved to new home nearby us. Well, sometime I would think that John has friend who stay nearby might not be a good thing. Now he has someone to go out together for tea at night and this causes him have more chance to go out. He could spent 1 hour just for buying newspaper but actually is meet his colleague and chitchating for a hour!
Do you think husband and wife need at least one same target point to maintenance their marriage?
Before marry to John, our target was purchase a sweet home.
We get married after purchase a sweet home.
Then, our target changed to have a happy sweet new husband and wife life.
We seem like lost target after 2 years of happy husband and wife life.
Then, we set another new target – we want a baby!
Then, we have a baby – opps…two babies…
Now..Babies already grow up to two little monster..
What is our next target then?
Thank you to John who willing to spend his time to take care of the children when I am sick. I felt sick in the past few days. John known I do not feeling well and volunteer to take care of the children at night so that I could sleep early after back home.
I really need a good rest these few days, if not I think I not manage to cope with my workload later. My boss assigned some work to me to complete in this weekend. I have to recharge my energy as soon as possible.
Played a test with John at night. I asked him one of the question in the personality test sent by a colleague last few days.
Question :
You walk out of the hut… as you carry on your walk in the forest… you see a waterfall from far… there is water running down…What is the speed of the water? (Choose a number ranging from 0 to 10)
John answer is 3
ANSWER :
Flow of waterfall:
0 – no sex drive at all
1 to 4 – low sex drive
5 – average sex drive
6 to 9 – high sex drive
10 – gone case!!! super high sex drive!!! Can’t live without sex…
The answer for fatty seems like not so accurate..hmm…maybe his need in sex is consider low if compare to man but high if compare to woman?
Checked with John this morning if he would come home early today. This fellow does not answer my question at all! He often ignore or answer something in joke without give me a proper answer. Then, at last afternoon, he would call me up and then ask what I want to do if he back home early. At that time I already do not know how to answer him already. Because I have no mood to tell what I want to do in the morning already. So..forget about it lor.
John is coughing since Monday. He already visited doctor on Tuesday but has not recovery until today. He even moved out from bedroom and sleep at living room’s sofa, because he worries his cough would make me up. Does he a lovely husband?
I am checking on Chinese Medicine that able to cure cough. I hope to serve him some medicine that could help him ease the cough. So that he could recover faster.
This year Valentine was a peaceful but happy day to me. John does not give me anything as Valentine present. I also have no idea what should I ask for Valentine present as well. Therefore, both have no valentine present for this year.
However, I am still love to be with him for the whole night. We chitchating, watching movie, dinner, red wine until late night. so relaxing and peaceful. I love it!
John does not know the differential of Love and Like. I asked few peoples and most of them do not really understand the different of Love and Like. I could not say I fully understand it but I think I Love John just like before.
Here is my view of love and like. You do not have to agree it but that is what I feel.
You can like so many people because of they are good people, they are good to you or they are respect you. However, you are not necessary love them. If you love someone you should have no problem to be a little boy / girl infront of him / her. You could be a child, a friend or a father to care and scarify for her/him.
John asked me what I want as Valentine gift. I am very happy because he remember the Valentine day. Of course, I also very happy because he is thinking to buy me something as Valentine gift. I think he really does not know what to buy, therefore he ask me what I want.
I could not think of a gift to request him to buy. I sis not because I do not have item wish to buy but is because most of the item I am dreaming to have is very pricey. I do not think he willing to spend for me. Who want to spend 1K – 2K for a Valentine gift, especially when he is not rich at all. oh my…headache to think of a thing that I want but with cheap price.
I would feel unhappy whenever John trying to hide something from me. What I mean is he is trying to hide form me what he doing when I am there.
Last two days night, when I walked into the bedroom and saw him sms-ing using his handphone, he trying not to let me see and want to walk out from bedroom. I am unhappy about that and was thinking that what kind of sms that he doesn’t want to let me know? is that so secretly?
I know he was sms his friend regarding a gathering actually. He does not have to hide from me as I never stop him to go out. Well, i admit I will mumble a bit but not until will scold him what..Why he so scare to let me see the sms?
I have a bad ream yesterday night. I dreamt John has another woman behind me. That wasn’t a scary dream but it definitely a sad dream.
I trust John but I scare if he done something likes that too. I do not know how other woman think but I scare my husband have sex with other woman. No matter it is happen under what kind of situation, a husband can’t make love with other woman if he loves his wife.
I can’t accept a husband who make love to other woman even he love me! I can’t accept the real of my man is doing something that ONLY can do with me with other woman. It hurt!
What I am dreamt was too real I think. I couldn’t help to feel sad until now. Simply because I love him and I can’t accept that he is betray me even in dream. :p
I trust John. I believe he would not do anything that hurt me. I always feel thankful because god sent him to me. When people complaint about their husband, I would think of how good John treats me.
He vacuum and mop the ground once a week. He soaks the children and my clothing every morning. He helps to change daughter’s diaper. He change daughter into pajamas often. He goes out to pack food for me at night whenever I want something to eat.
How couldn’t I appreciate him?
Would you feel warm and sweet when you think about your hubby? I will. Most of the moment I think of John, I am feeling happy and thankful.
Yes, just like what my colleague said. You would never know if your have a good husband until you dead. Life is so long and situation would change often. He is very good to you now but it does not mean he would not chance in the future. I understand what their mean. Life would change so did person too.
However, I shoose to believe that John would be good to me forever, because I LOVE him and I believe he LOVE me the same.
I always thank you god has giving me a very nice husband. I could never decline that John is a very good husband. I know there are many women have very good husband as well, however I always believe mine is the best. (Just like other women thinks their husband is the best too)
Above are some of the points make me love him more.
Short apart did improve husband and wife relationship. I do not know about other husband and wife, however it is working great in John and me. I love to touch him and hug him tied everytime he is back from outstation. I love to smell him and kiss him. haha
I think I am crazy about his smell. I just love to be at his side and with him for every second.
John will be outstation today. He told me suppose to go on yesterday but due to short of materials, so he has no choice to wait for the materials delivery. Therefore, today would be the time leaving already. Most of the materials will be arrive today.
I am ok with that since I am already use to it. John use to outstation for at least 2 weeks or a month since 3 years ago. I should not sound much because he is working hard for the family actually, not go for fun. right?
John and me never keep contact through internet until last two days. John does not know much about Computer, never say the internet services. He only expert in surfing football website which was teach by his friends few months ago.
I though he would not reply my email because he seldom check his email account. For me, he registered the email address just for fun only. I am so surprise to see his reply yesterday night. He replied me and said he missing me so much! haha…so sweet.
John suppose to outstation again this week end, however he has to postpone because of my plan. Of course, I am very happy with his arrangement. Although we already been together for many years. Sometime, we might not have chance to chitchat more than 20 sentences in a day due to I am too busy to take care of my girl at home.
I usually will fall in sleep very fast at night. But I do feel his care and just love him being so nice and lovely to me. Thanks Darling!
John already went to outstation 4 days already. I am quite busy these few days, so it is still ok for me to live without him at this moment. haha
However, I think I will miss him badly next week. Most of my work would complete in next week and I would be free to miss him like crazy at that time already. I probably would call him everyday so that I could chat with him. Well of course if he free to entertainment me.
Hardly believe that John was angry me yesterday night. I need his help to bring down something to me yesterday night, after he brought down I need him to take back the stroller and mumble a little about that only. Then he showed his unhappy face and straightly back home already.
I have no time to ask more at that moment because I am rushing to go other place. But I do not talk with him after back home too. I straightly go to sleep after back home.