Nothing is better than have a man that truly loves. I appreciated to have John as my hubby. Although he not a handsome guy and even got people “hint” me he looks “ugly” with his pair of super small eyes. However, I treat this as nothing and willing to be with him, even he is poor too. I have no idea why I married to a man with no good looking and money. I could not find a reason but only love him.
One day, I am busying iron the children school uniform in their bedroom. My husband and children are watching TV at the living room. Later, I suddenly notice John is standing outside the door and looking at me quietly.
I am quite shocked and ask him, what’s going on? Why you looking at me like that. You know what he told me?
He said : ” I really could not understand why I would love a woman who does not know to do anything like you.”
John wanted me to wait him back home yesterday night. I tried to stay awake and wait for him in the bedroom after put the children to sleep. I do not switch off the light and trying hard to keep myself awake. Too bad, I failed. I know John is back but I could not make myself wake up to welcome him, I am too tired already and my eyes refuse to open. :p
John has no time to accompany the children and me for two months already. He told me at around April that his project is running out of time now and would be very busy. June is almost passing already, but seems like he has not complete the project yet. I thought he would only busy for two months but today he told me he would not be free for the next few months too. hai.. I think I do not have to plan for any vacation in next few months already. He could not even have time to chat with me for longer time, never to say bring us to a vacation.
When wife has no mood to entertain husband, how do you reject husband then? What I mean is when I am damn tire and want to sleep early or I am feeling unhappy and have no mood to “play” with husband. I do not know is wrong or right, but I would just tell him don’t come to me. I have no mood or I so tire have no energy to entertain him. :p
John is not a handsome guy. He also not a man who will sweet talk to you. But he will be there whenever I need him. When I feeling sad and do not want to talk, he will hug me without say a word. When I need to mumble, he will entertain me even he is feeling sleepy. I appreciate his care and I hope he would be the one comfort me in the future too. Until forever.
John going to ban me enters to study room at night already. Yes, he surely would if I continue to spend time online and do not take care of his lovely daughter. Usually man is less care about children but my man is very different. He taking care of the children most of the time and I am just doing what I like at home. I know I not suppose to do that but I am a very lazy wife. I wish I could change myself but too bad, I could not :p
8 marriage years might not a long period, but I feel like we are together for very long time already. Some times, we having some thought and same opinion. However, we having same view for most of the things. This might be the reason why we could be husband and wife. I wish we could be together forever. I love him as the way he is and he loves me, a inner me.
Yesterday night, when we having pillow talk at room. John told me that I am look beautiful than previously. I was laughing and think he just bluff me but then I asked him seriously is it true he feel I am beautiful than previously. He answered yes. haha…
I am truly happy with his answer actually. It is good to hear he comment like that. That mean he stills love me. I am still beautiful and attractive in his eyes. haha
Our dating ended around 9pm. We do not go other place due to tomorrow have to wake up early. We back to home directly, however, I truly happy and feeling great. What a long time we do not have chance to enjoy a silent dinner already. Furthermore this is a romantic dinner just for John and I. Love it! I wish we have more chances to enjoy dinner like this in the future.
John drove me to a Western Food restaurant. I am on diet actually, I should not eat more but I do not want to spoil John’s mood as well. So, we order two sets dinner and ended but I eat half of my eat and he had all the other food. haha..
He make joke with me, he going to be fatter while I am slim down because all the food suppose to eat by me now has become his portion. Hmm… Maybe I should stop him to take all my portion, but it just wasting if does not finish the food. Well, I try to order just 1 set next time if possible.
I am a woman lazy to beautify myself. However, due to John invited to have a dinner at quite high class restaurant, so I forced to dress better. Lucky I have some spare dress keep in my mother home, else I have to wear short pant and T-shirt to take dinner there already.
Of course, I am not wearing dinner gown since I don’t even have. 
A long skirt, spaghetti strap tank tops plus a mini coat. Is already consider nice dressing to me.
I quite surprise when John told me he wanted to bring me to a high class restaurant for dinner. Furthermore, the restaurant is located quite far from our home. John is a lazy man who does not like to go out, he often complaint me loves to go here and there, never stay at home without think of go out. See, It is hard for me to believe he would bring me to a restaurant located far away just for dinner. Suddenly, I have the feeling of dating. At that time he doesn’t mind to bring me here and there at all. haha
I have no complaint when talk about my husband. Well, maybe sometimes I would make some sound but that definitely not a blame. I only want to express something about him without a single feeling of he done something bad to me.
Married to a husband like John, I really could not find a reason to make complaint or blame on him. He might not a 100% good husband but he already is a 95% good husband. I shall just ignore the 5% that is not good from him.
If I am a man who wish to enjoy family life I don’t think I would get marry to a woman like me.
I have to admit that I am not a good wife because I do not do house chore. I do not sweep floor; I do not mop floor; I do not spend much time to accompany husband; I do not whispering to him; I am not a little woman but a quite “big” woman.
Who could stand for wife like that? Hmm.. Maybe a man that rich enough to hire maid to do everything for me. A man that always busy for work and does not need wife to accompany. Or my man. :p
We always saying that fate make a couple become husband and wife. And we also saying that either one of the husband or wife is come get back or to pay for past life debt of honour. Maybe this is real.
Some couple already fully claimed the debts, so they choose to divorce. Some couple has so many to claim that might causes them together forever. It maybe is fate and it may also is destiny.
I would like to say thank you to my lovely husband John. He is such a great husband that would always support me. He knows I like to travel and would always make my own decision where to go and when to go without inform him first. However, he never complaint nor say a thing about it. He would just trying his best to fulfill my plan. Such a great husband where to find now? I believe I would not found one if I never meet him.
John started to work Overtime since yesterday. He said he have to rush for his work before leave for holiday. He came back around 11pm yesterday night. I was in bad mood that time and do not go out to welcome him at all. I am feeling bad now because I am not a good wife. My mood affect my action deeply and I just do not know how to adjust my mood and treat him good after a tired work.
John and me take turn to take care of the children in these few days holiday. Chor 1 was my turn to take care two children and John went out with friends for tea around 10pm. He suppose accompany me on that day because that day was Valentine day too. But too bad he did not. He prefer to accompany his friends on this special day rather than with me. haii..
Today is Valentine day. I dated John to watch a Hong Kong Movie today. We went to the cinema at 6.15pm and the show started at 7.10am. We have a relax tea time before the movie start for about 25 minutes.
Then the movie ended at 9am. Guess what happen next?
Went to fetch the children – back to home – the children and me stay at home and John went out for tea with gang! @($&)(*%$#
I have a date with John this coming Sunday. I been waiting for the 2012 movie sicne last month and even date him in advance before the show is start. I take this chance as a PakTohing date. I would send the children to my parent place and get their help to take care of them for few hours. So that, I could escape with John for the movie.
I am looking forward for the day!
I love to suprise John. I Love to make him happy. I love to give him pleasure.
Last week, I bought a silk sleep wear in shopping center and planned to surprise him at weekend. I already keep the sleepwear secretly and thinking not to let him see it before I wear it in front of him.
Maybe I am a bit eat full nothing to do. But I just enjoy the moment he see me in that half transparent sleep wear. It just so fun to turn him on!
Yesterday, a friend asks my current relationship level with my husband have reached which level. I am not sure what she talking about until she explains further.
Marriage after so many years did the relationship go further good or getting worst now. Do we still love each other as much as pak-tok-ing; or we are living under same root but with different world?
I told tell her, John and me still loving each other as previously. In addition, I also very happy John gave me the same answer when I asked him this question.
I though John would outstation today but he told me he would stay this morning. Well, I am still not sure when would he going to outstation for his project yet.This Saturday is public holiday, maybe that is the reason he does not want to go outstation? I am very happy he could stay for a little longer with us.
Let see if I could plan a relax holiday in this weekend with him or not. Maybe I should arrange for a day out with him, we have no chance to date for quite some time already.
The answer lies on recognizing the fact that you walk on parallel paths. So, in order to preserve your relationship, you must build a life style that will guarantee that your ways will never cross, that there will always be some distance between you. I feel, however, that it is necessary to stress that this is only one aspect of the chart. There is much more involved in your relationship and, perhaps, the complete lack of connection between the four and the nine will never become much of an issue. But if it does, remember that the distance between these numbers is the only thing that makes it possible for them to live in harmony. Try to overcome the distance and harmony no longer exists.
John might not a 100% good father, but he definitely is 99% good husband. I should have complaint about him at all. In fact, I could not find a reason to complain him as he already serves me the best! He is the one love me and pampers me the most in this world. Even my parent do not treat me as much love as he does. I should feel lucky to have him to accompany me for rest of my life.
John sms me and saying that he will be going to Genting Highland tonight. He have not out when I brought the children back home. Then I only know that he is waiting for his colleague who is just moved to new home nearby us. Well, sometime I would think that John has friend who stay nearby might not be a good thing. Now he has someone to go out together for tea at night and this causes him have more chance to go out. He could spent 1 hour just for buying newspaper but actually is meet his colleague and chitchating for a hour!
Do you think husband and wife need at least one same target point to maintenance their marriage?
Before marry to John, our target was purchase a sweet home.
We get married after purchase a sweet home.
Then, our target changed to have a happy sweet new husband and wife life.
We seem like lost target after 2 years of happy husband and wife life.
Then, we set another new target – we want a baby!
Then, we have a baby – opps…two babies…
Now..Babies already grow up to two little monster..
What is our next target then?
Thank you to John who willing to spend his time to take care of the children when I am sick. I felt sick in the past few days. John known I do not feeling well and volunteer to take care of the children at night so that I could sleep early after back home.
I really need a good rest these few days, if not I think I not manage to cope with my workload later. My boss assigned some work to me to complete in this weekend. I have to recharge my energy as soon as possible.
Played a test with John at night. I asked him one of the question in the personality test sent by a colleague last few days.
Question :
You walk out of the hut… as you carry on your walk in the forest… you see a waterfall from far… there is water running down…What is the speed of the water? (Choose a number ranging from 0 to 10)
John answer is 3
ANSWER :
Flow of waterfall:
0 – no sex drive at all
1 to 4 – low sex drive
5 – average sex drive
6 to 9 – high sex drive
10 – gone case!!! super high sex drive!!! Can’t live without sex…
The answer for fatty seems like not so accurate..hmm…maybe his need in sex is consider low if compare to man but high if compare to woman?