I was planning to cook dinner for John on Sunday. Now have to forget about the plan because I forget to prepare all those ingredients. I do not even have rice at home! I usually would take some rice from my mother home if I want to cook at home next day. However, I forget to bring back the rice yesterday, so nothing to cook for tonight dinner already. Hmm.. Now I better think where we should go for dinner. 
Since John have to work on Sunday too. So, today we do not go out for breakfast. I have to cook for the children and of course for myself too. Here was what I cooked. Three half boiled egg, 6 sausages, 5 pieces bread and 2 pieces fish fillet. Three of us also have Kiwi Yogurt drink today. Simple yet delicious breakfast we have today. hahaa
Today is Sunday, I suppose to bring the kids to their grandmother house but I decided to stay at home without going anywhere. I though my elder daughter would be very happy to stay at home because she always want to watch Cartoon channel that do not have in my mother’s home. However, she is not. She said she want to go grandmother home just now. Later I only found that she forget to bring back her spectacle and that is the reason she want to go grandmother home. Hai..
John has to work after back from Ching Ming. Then, my sister and mother already bring the children to visit a relative, so I am at home alone now. It is always have con and pro to be alone.
The good side is I could do whatever I want without disturbing by the children. I could have a nap for 2 hours; I could sit in front of the computer to play games non stop. The con is I am feeling lonely suddenly! Hai..
Yesterday was a very nice day for me. John smsed me at around 5pm in the afternoon and ask me where should we go for dinner. We sent the children to my mother because of tomorrow Ching Ming. We do not want to send them to mother at the 5.30am in the morning, so no choice to sent them one day early. Because of this, John and I have a very free night. haha
Many people saying that you could see a mother character from her children, a child would always be the shadow of the mother or father. I agreed that child does have part of her mother or father shadow, as parent is the closer person to them. They pick up those characters from parent.
However, nowadays a child might not just copy parent attitude but also their nanny, grandmother, or whoever takes care of them daily. How to avoid kids learn their bad attitude is such a big problem now. As this is not the job of parent anymore, we need other people to co-operate. But convince other people to co-operate is the most difficult.
John went out for tea at first holiday night with friends. And I stay at my mother house at the second holiday night. I have a “drunk” gathering night with all the sisters at mother’s home accept youngest sister.
I arrange with John to take care of two children in the early morning already. He bring two girls back to apartment after dinner while I stay at my mother house and get drunk at night!
I have two days holiday starting from today. John already went to outstation for his project, so today I do not have to rush back home to bring him dinner. I could spend more time at my mother’s home and chitchatting with my sister. I always rush back home before my sister back home. Therefore, these two days would be nice chance for us to gather abit longer time.
John told me he is going to outstation tomorrow. I remembered he told me he would goes on Wednesday only but just suddenly depart on tomorrow? Well, I should not have any complain since he is going to work and not playing. Anyway, I already help him to pack some clothing and I hope he would come back soon. Its just another two days for New year! I hope he would be with us on that day.
John told me he is rushing for a project started last week. Before the project star, he wanted me to wake him up at 7am every morning so that he could leave home at 8am. I already wake him as what he wanted but guess what? He keep continue to sleep until 7.45am no matter how I wake him. John is such a lazy man in the early morning. He loves to be a snake on bed even already awake. Now he leaves home at 8.15am, 15 minutes late to work. Hope he still manage to reach office at time.
My sister is very busy recently. Well, she is not busy for her working but is busy for dating. Haha..Even John also saying that she might not as free as previously accompany us to go travel.
In fact, all of us are very happy because she finally found someone that loves her. We do not mind she spend more time with her boyfriend now. She deserves to get this good luck.
Don’t know what happen to John yesterday. He keeps doing house chores after I back to home. I saw him cleaning the kitchen, dining room, living room and even our bedroom and study room. Well, he should be very tire after work for a whole day in office but why he so hardworking to do cleaning work yesterday? Does he complain me no do house chore silently? Or he just simply want to clean the house?
John is not feeling well these two days. He told me he has sore throat and flu on Wednesday. I already gave him consumed flu and sore throat medicine, although he looks quite ok on the next day. but today his flu and sore throat come back again.
I think it is because he does not continue to consume the medicine yesterday. He thought he is fully recovered already. I just forced him to take the medicine again, I think I have to remind him to take it tomorrow also. Better clear the virus fully by continue consume medicine.
I heard a special topic from radio. The host asks a question like below:-
If you met your father at a shopping mall, then he is shopping with a female. Furthermore, he is holding her hand while shopping. So what would you do? Would you tell your mother what have you seen?
Well, I do not what should I do yet. Let me think…
I am waiting John for dinner now. Today is public holiday, he suppose to accompany me and kids, however, he could not do so because he has to attend his boss open house party. So, I have no choice to let him go. Opps…for one afternoon only. He stills have to accompany us at morning and night. haha
Another 20 minutes to go, the girls still sleeping and I have not take bath yet. 2o minutes is not enough for me!
After tried be a stay at home mother for a week, I finally changed a bit on the decision of to be a stay at home mother. I was thinking that the life of stay at home mother is very boring, well I am wrong. I was busy like hell in these few days! I was planning to clean my house, help John to do some office work and complete all my assignments. I could not believe that I done nothing until today! Anyway, I start to know how to adjust my time when being a stay at home mother. They schedule is quite fixed actually; I only need some time to arrange nicely. Then, I would still have some private time.
Now not only my children sick already, even John also having mild sore throat. I already forced him to visit doctor yesterday. Although he has no other symptom yet but I am kind of worry he will get the same infection also. Today already is the third day since he feeling not comfortable, lucky there is no other sympton also.
I already boiled herbal tea and keep remind him to take his medicine on time. I hope he would getting well soon, so that I do not have to worry them again.
John gave me a list of Chinese Herbs today, he got the list from a friend and now want me to buy all the Chiense Herbs and add water to boil. He is serious in prevention now. He wants me to cook more Chinese Herbs tea for the children and family.
John is having flu and cough now, I hope he would feeling better after take medicine. I really ahve to take very good care for them now. I hope I could be strong as well. I could not fall in sick at this moment!
Today, I forced John to do medical check up again. He done a detail medical check up at February and consumed some cholesterol medicine about three months after that. He suppose to do the medical check up again at June but he was too busy at that time because want to rush for project. However, his project already finished two weeks ago and now should be the time go for the check up. But he keeps told me no time to go. He such a big child when come to medical purpose. I have no choice to force him and drive him to the clinic just for the check up! naughty big boy!
Yesterday was a very busy day for John. He has to send the children to school at 7.30am then went to office to meet his partner. They have an urgent discussion must settle by yesterday and John has no time in the after because we have hired someone to repair the ceramic tile today.
John backed to home at 9am but already late, the workers already waiting there. Anyway, the most terrible job was after done the repair work. He has to clean all the things. table, chair, floor, decoration are full of dusts after the repair works! Pity him only manage to settle all at around 9pm with a little help from me. :p
I do not sleep in my bedroom for two days already. I sleep with the children since two days ago. I could not stand to sleep in our bedroom anymore. How about John then? He still ok to sleep there until yesterday. haha..He finally could not stand for it also and sleep in living room last night. We still have not find a suitable method to kill the bed bugs yet, anyway, we going to spray mosquitor killer all over the bed and closet tonight again and hope it could help.
We have two celebration in this month. First is our elder child’s birthday that fall in third week and father day that also fall in third week. We decided to celebrate these two days early. I already dated with my parent and John, we are going to a buffet dinner for celebration this coming Saturday.
I have 6 discount coupons, which manage to help me save at least 50% of the total bill! I purposely bought the discount coupon just for these two celebration. So good we finally could have an early re-union soon.
2 weeks to go for elder daughter 5 years old birthday. I have no idea how to celebrate her birthday yet. Maybe I will bring her and my family for a buffet dinner as celebration of her birthday. Or just buy a small cake to celebrate at home.
I have to think what to buy for her to bring to school also. Her school would organize a small birthday party in classroom for each of the student. So I have to prepare something for them too. A birthday cake is a must, just that I still consider to homemake some cupcake for them. well, not sure would i have time to bake cup cake or not. But I think it would be a good idea to bake cup cake for them.
I think John and me already feeling exhaust to take care of sick baby. Well, maybe he is not yet but for me, I am sure already cannot stand for continuous to have sleepless night already. My head is pain now. I think I am going to have fever soon.
I will request John to sleep with the kid today. I hope I could catch a good night sleep and recharge my energy as soon as possible. I do not want to be sick at this time. My girls need me attention now.
Asking her to wake up is such a difficult job for me. I know the main reason caused she wake up late is because she sleep late at night. What to do to get her sleep early? I already tried to put them to sleep as early as 9pm! But they will never sleep on time and always playing and chatting for at least 1 or 2 hours. Then surely will refuse to wake up on time in the next morning. Then I have to act like a tiger to call them wake up, so that would not late to school! *sigh*
I have no idea why my child loves to sleep outside my bedroom. She should sleep in her own bedroom but she is not. At night I would get her to sleep in her bedroom and make sure she is sleep before leave the room. But, I still seeing her sleep on the floor outside my bedroom, she almost stick to my bedroom door and I have to careful not step on her every morning out from bedroom. Funny huh, why she likes to sleep at there?
I always appreciate what John do for the family. I have to admit that he is a very good father to the children and a very good husband to me. I knoe there is no perfect human in this world, therefore I never expert to have a perfect husband as well. Frankly, it is impossible for me to be a perfect wife as well.
A husband who willing to sweep the floor, mop the floor and doing most of the house chord once a week. What could I complain more?
Today is our public holiday. I suppose have quite many activities, but all cancelled at last minutes. All because John has to back home today and we have to follow him back.
I was planning to join my mother lunch today. She already inform me she would cook us the “Suan Ban Zhi”, a formal Hakka dish. Too bad, I have no chance to taste it because John has to back home. 
Never mind, I hope my mother would have some leave over, so that I could have some on tomorrow afternoon after back from office.
Daughter having fever yesterday night. I was busy entertain both daughter but John still went out for tea with friends. I heard he talk with friend in the phone. Although I could not hear it clearly. However, from their conversation I assume he would out for tea with them. I was waiting him to inform me but he didn’t.
I was waiting to see if he really go out for tea even daughter is sick. Well, he didn’t inform me and went out directly. I thought he is going out ot buy newspaper, but seem like it is not. He didn’t back within 30 mins and I have no choice to sms him to back home. I already so tire to take care of one sick daughter, I have no more energy to take care another fuzzy daughter at the same time.
I was planning to have a sweet night with John yesterday. Took bath after back to home. Then I have to arrange the kis to sleep first, if not we definitely could not have a quality time.
However, my kid refuse to sleep after get them to bedroom. Both are playing in the room and talk loudly. I have no choice to go into their bedroom and co-sleep with them. At the time they fall in sleep, I already 90% in slumberland already.
So…nothing happen at yesterday.